On the other hand, nothing you do ever go smoothly. Remember tripping over the barrier and there goes the precious ice cream you were holding in your hand when you were young. Not once, but every time you have something nice to eat on your hand. Getting bullied by the bigger guys in school. Falling secretly in love with the girl but too shy to do anything because of your physical appearance. The head of so-and-so clubs and performances at school events always go to the brightest students. The suave ones have all the girls falling head of heel over them. While you are a nobody not worth a mention.
Later in your working life, you are locked in a dead end job with no light at the end of the tunnel. All the shit works go to you while the others get the credit. The staff who joined later gets promoted faster than you.
You tried your hands in business and bombed a big hole in your pocket, taking years for you to repay back the loans. You see your friends pampering their partners with expensive gifts while you can't even afford to dine out at a cheap restaurant. Endless quarrels with your wife over money. Rebellious kids.
Life is a struggle for you.
I used to think why I'm such a failure in life from time to time. Until I saw a video of a deformed baby born.
Being born without any defects already makes you a winner. In fact, being born already makes you a winner.
Give yourself a pat when life gets a little tough.